Tuesday, July 16, 2024

The Person Who Left You Did You A Favor, It’s Time To Move On!

Say what? Are you crazy? Do u have any idea what you are talking about? Have you ever been in LOVE? I agree with all the questions and though it all seems to be a difficult time, I am sure the person who left you did you a huge favor.  It might be a bit harsh and really troublesome time, but you are better off without your ex. Moving on might be the hardest thing to do but trust me, by the end of this article you would feel a lot better and more confident about yourself.

Everyone goes through a break-up and it is not an insurmountable obstacle that you can’t overcome. It is of no use to be upset about a situation that was not even in your hand. The main reason behind any break up is because it is not healthy anymore. The relationship in itself feels like a burden. Give yourself some time to start feeling emotions other than grief. Right now I am sure you must be feeling numb. You deserve time off from all that drama and be yourself again.

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1. Now Is Always Better Than Later 

No matter whatever stage of a relationship you were on, the deeper you would go, the more it would have hurt. It is but natural to feel connected to one another when you are in a relationship. But while getting to know each other, you are also falling in love! Or you might feel so. But since he/she broke up, they saved you from a lot of self-pity nights and much more.


2. Self Love Is Also Love 

When your past leaves, you should be thankful. It gives you time to think about what is more important for you- YOU. You know your self-worth. It is always better to be loved by yourself than depending on somebody else to make you feel loved. There is no sense of insecurities.’

3. Discover New hobbies  

While you were so involved with the person you thought to be the love of your life, did you forget about what you like to do? Discover a new hobby, maybe it will alter your career path. Change your life and move ahead. It will break the monotony of feeling sorry for yourself and getting angry at the other person.

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4. You Develop Compassion 

Breaking up is hard and thus you know and are feeling the pain of separation. While suffering you come in control of your emotions. You develop empathy and compassion for others. You can understand what others might be feeling and once you have moved on you would be able to help your friends who might be going through a bad phase in their life.

5. Your Worries Seems Trivial 

As more and more time passes, you get to know that whatever problems you might have faced are not that big a deal. Agreed it might not feel so right now but once time has passed, you would look back at this time of your life and feel silly.


6. Discover A World Outside  

Believe it or not, there is a world outside. All this time, while you have been upset the rest of the world has been functioning properly. When your ex-left, discover things around you. Get in touch with your friends. I am sure you must have forgotten all about them. It is a great opportunity to reconnect with the outside world.

7. Find Out About You 

We often forget who we are when we are in a relationship. Your breakup is a great opportunity to reconnect with yourself. Find out about your own strength, your flaws and how to correct them. You become strong emotionally, physically and mentally.

8. Find Out Your True Friend 

A person who will remain with you, through your thick and thins is the person worth hanging onto. You become a better judge of people and you can connect with more friends. A strong circle of friends keeps you grounded and guide you from making any mistakes.

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9. Appreciate Love and Commitment 

The best thing your ex can teach you is how to love and be in love. Commitment in any relationship is the building stone. You would know what mistakes were made so you can work towards that and you would be more mature and more prepared for ‘The One’.

I would say it again that when a relationship becomes a burden to carry, moving on is far much better than resenting each other. Be thankful for your ex to leave the relationship because now you can grow as a person and be more mature and ready to be in love. You do not need another person to make you feel complete. So be grateful for the person who did you this huge favor and move on to a better life.

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Preeti Bhandari
Preeti Bhandari
Preeti B lives in Canada with her two boys, who keep her on her toes. Content writing and paper quilling are two art forms that she is passionate about. She loves to express herself through these two mediums. Apart from these, listening to music and reading books are the hobbies that take her to a different zone.

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